How To Be Legendary: A Lesson from The Femme Fatales

“You can’t be afraid to say your own name in the same breath as legends.” We were in a crowd of people at a party when she said that to me, and something about it struck me. What makes a “legend”? What makes us “legendary”? I looked to some of my ghostly screen mothers for […]


How Dangerous Are You? Top 3 Tips from Femme Fatales

She was unapologetic for who she was. She walked slowly and deliberately into a room like she belonged there. She looked people in the eye when she spoke, and didn’t veer away. She held her own – in the way she carried herself and the way she handled herself with others. I found Ava Gardner […]


Things I Think About Thursday: When I Was An Outlaw.

My heart was beating out of my chest. The mafia was involved now. Bad decisions were being made. My hands found themselves clutching the arms of the chair. The credits rolled and I blinked being thrust back into reality. My eyes were blurry with another world, another life. The other people that just got out […]


Things I Think About Thursday: How Danger Dame was Born

The huge false eyelashes. I wear them every single day. Even on days like today when I’m wearing pants covered in paint, a nasty ripped and tied back together t-shirt and I have black tile grout staining the half moon circles of my fingernails.  They are ON. If I’m not seeing a single person during […]