STAY TRUE: How To Deal With Being Different.

I was going to a party so I got dressed up like this. Afterwards, my friends and I left and went to a bar together. As soon as we walked in, the female bartender grabbed the male bartender by the wrist and they stood there behind the bar, obviously whispering and talking shit about us. We […]


Fear of a Sensual Woman – The Story of Madonna, Wendy Williams, and #yesallwomen

There have been over 1,000 women by now… in the 6 years that I’ve been teaching burlesque, confidence and sensuality classes over 1,000 women have walked into the doors of my classroom. Real Talk: The things they are most afraid of always break down to 3 heartbreaking things: Some are terrified of being sensual or […]


Shailene Woodley and When Feminism Became the “F Word”

What does a feminist look like? This bitch. And I say that word with power and respect, as I have learned over the course of my life, that in key moments, when I have taken charge or stood up for myself, it has occasionally been what I’ve been called. Do you know what I mean? […]